The mistake people make is in first trying to think of who they want to be. Knowing what sort of person you are helps you to find happiness and the life you really want regardless of what you decide to do with your life so that you can achieve your dreams.
You must become single minded. Be clear, direct and specific in regards to what you want and resolve to take steps that will lead you in that direction. Do not be stopped, moved or delayed by setbacks. Get up and keep moving until you have the desired outcome, never settling for anything less.
Success is simple once you know what to do. First you must overcome your own mind which keeps you in your comfort zone and limits your beliefs about what you can do to achieve your dreams. Here are some tips to follow:
Think big and take big action. Thinking small only gets you small success.
Write everything you want (goals) and why you want it. The reason behind it shows your purpose in life. The more reasons for wanting to achieve your dreams, the better chance for success.
Break each goal into daily steps that you can plan to carry out each day. Daily goals give you daily success and what will motivate you to continue moving forward.
Manage your time and do not allow other people to interrupt your progress.
Happiness comes from within not by buying things. The best way to be happy is to help others.
Identifying those beliefs that were holding you back and giving yourself the permission to change them.
You can keep yourself motivated by constantly setting new goals and believing the ones you have now are worth achieving. Surround yourself with positive people who also have worthwhile goals and are working toward them (not just talking about them as too many people do).
To truly live the life of your dreams, you must observe these 4 F’s of life as listed below:
Forgive – we have all heard it before and the reason we have heard it so much is because it is the first step to living a life you want. Forgive your past, forgive yourself and forgive those who have hurt you. In your heart say I forgive myself, my past and the names of those who you feel have hurt you.
Forward – it is time to move forward. You are free from the past and free from the future in which you must go forward moment after moment.
Fun – life is in fact fun. You complicate things, you do not trust that all will work out, you do not have fun. It is time to have some fun in your life. Even if it is just once a day you dance in your living room, laugh, the belly do laugh too, do something fun! It will ease the pain in your life and get you on track to living the life of your dreams.
Fullness – you must always remember, where you are at this exact moment, the fullness of God is! You have the power to take control of your life and create it into absolute Fullness of joy thereby creating a platform to achieve your dreams.